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Pregnancy and baby loss: finding support after loss

Michelle Groenewald, who works in perinatal bereavement support through the Hope Box Initiative, talks about living with pregnancy and baby loss.

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This talk is about grief after miscarriage, stillbirth and neonatal loss, and the support that exists around it in South Africa. Grief differs between people, and partners often grieve differently from each other and at different times. There is no fixed timetable, and feelings can return during later fertility treatment, a subsequent pregnancy, or around dates such as a due date or anniversary. Nothing about that is a failure to cope. Counselling, peer support and bereavement organisations help many people, but none of it is compulsory — some people find their support elsewhere. If you are struggling to cope, or having thoughts of harming yourself, contact your clinic or the South African Depression and Anxiety Group (SADAG) on 0800 567 567.

Recorded in 2023. This video discusses pregnancy and baby loss. Support in South Africa: your clinic, your antenatal team, or SADAG on 0800 567 567.

Key takeaways

  • Grief after pregnancy or baby loss differs between individuals and has no fixed timetable.
  • Partners may grieve differently, and at different times, without either being wrong.
  • Feelings can return during later treatment, a subsequent pregnancy, or around significant dates.
  • Counselling and peer support help many people, but they are a choice, not an obligation.
  • If you are struggling to cope, contact your clinic or SADAG on 0800 567 567.

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References

  • Fertility Show Africa Expert Talks — https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fCUWP5iSULU
  • Fertility Show Africa — https://fertilityshowafrica.com/
  • Fertility Show Africa 2023 official programme — https://fertilityshowafrica.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/FSA-2023-Show-Programme.pdf
  • SASREG — https://sasreg.co.za/

This video was produced by Fertility Show Africa Expert Talks (programme curated with IFAASA and SASREG) and is shared for education only. It is not medical advice and does not replace guidance from your own doctor or fertility clinic. Naming an organisation does not imply a partnership with Antega.