Telling children about donor conception

Counsellors and donor-conceived adults consistently advise telling early and repeatedly, so the story is simply part of a child's life rather than a later revelation. Age-appropriate books and clinic counselling support this. With widespread consumer DNA testing, secrecy is increasingly unlikely to hold.

Also known as: disclosure, talking to children about donor conception

Last reviewed: 10 September 2026. Written by the Antega Editorial Team. General information only — always follow the advice of your own clinic, doctor or pharmacist.